Does Our Past Even Matter?

Surviving the affair....the cheaters perspective

It’s in the past so why does it matter?

I think about this question in my head a lot.  I know that I am who I am because of the accumulation of the experiences, both good and bad, I endured throughout my life.  However, those experiences are in the past and there is nothing I can do about them.  I can’t changed the dysfunctional house that I grew up in, nor the choices I have made in my professional and personal life.  All I can hope for is to learn from them and hope not to repeat the same mistakes.  So why does the past really matter?

My wife and our counselor really think it would be a good idea if I were to go back to individual counseling.  They think that I need to work through my childhood with a professional.  I left counseling because I had no idea what…

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Published by: bac4sccr

I am just a run of the mill, ever day father/husband who is just trying to navigate my way back to where I want to be. Unfortunately there isn't an "Easy" button or a "Reset" button or I would be hitting them repeatedly. This is just my journey from my perspective.

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  1. Sometimes, no matter how far we have gone in life, we still need to revisit those ugly past, so that we can one or two ideas on why or where things are actually going wrong in the present so as to arrange the future. No offense, but that’s just how life is


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